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More Articles About Marriage

Tips for a Happy Marriage

Marriage Boundaries

You probably got married as friends, but then found yourselves running into difficulty because you each had your own way of living and doing. You came from one family, and your partner came from another family, and those families were different.
Your job as a couple is to create some boundaries and rules that will guide you in your marriage. But if you’ve never created any rules before, and you or your partner don’t like rules and boundaries, it won’t be an easy task. (read more)

Who is the Leader?

You are equal partners making decisions in marriage. Responsibilities must be divided up. You need policies, procedures, and rules in order to work cooperatively as well as independently.
You will enjoy working together as you know each other better and gain confidence in each other’s decision-making ability. Developing faith and trust takes many months. Forging a new way of life from your different backgrounds takes time and patience.
Remember, you are equal partners. You are both vitally interested in all areas of the marriage. As in a business, consult with each other and participate in making decisions and reviewing them. (read more)

Competing Spouses

When the Dolans, a Christian couple, came to see me, they had not spoken to each other for several weeks. The tension had become unbearable.
The issue was over dancing in gym class. Hal Dolan had said flatly that their son should not participate.
Melissa Dolan had agreed in front of her husband, but privately gave their son permission to participate. Hal found out about it through a conversation with a neighbor who had visited the gym class. (read more)

Articles About Marriage

Marriage Partnership

The foundation upon which you build your marriage relationship is a mutually agreeable and mutually binding plan. That’s what makes marriage successful. It’s not a “tingle”; it’s a life-time commitment. It’s not competition; it’s cooperation.
Is your partnership built on this foundation?
Just as teammates have to go into a game with the same plan, you and your partner must approach your marriage, not with the attitude of ‘me versus you,’ but with the attitude of being fully committed to the same plan.

An Inner Life for a Healthy Marriage

There is no one person as intimately involved in your life as your marriage partner. So, your partner will make you more conscious of your inner life than anyone else. How are you contributing to happiness in your marriage?
Marriage, like no other human relationship, will keep you up to date on the condition of your inner life. It is a personal decision, unrelated to marriage, whether or not you repent of a negative inner life, and allow God to flood your soul with His Spirit.

A Solid Foundation

“I want to be a better spouse.” You say this, thinking back over a multitude of incidents that make up the history of your family. Some of them were funny when they happened; others are funny only as we look back on them. Still others were serious. Some were puzzling.
There are months on end when a husband and wife get along beautifully; and then, out of the clear blue sky, there are frequent disagreements. Then, just as mysteriously, things clear up. This is the ebb and flow, the fascination, the never-ending variety, the multitude of moods that make up family living.

Happy Marriage Secrets

Good Communication

Communication means to overcome the desire to conceal feelings and thoughts and rise to the level of talking about money, fears, wishes, motivations, sexual feelings and responses, mistakes made, resentments, and misunderstandings with the intent to resolve them. (read more)

Building Harmony in Marriage

Cooperation creates the oil that makes an effective relationship possible. And the golden thread that runs through that oil is love. Not the kind of love the world offers, that is stimulated by other people and other things, but the kind of love that God gives you. His love enables you to let go of your own way. . . .
When two people come to the place where they have the same mind, the same judgment, the same outlook, and the same goals, yes, they have given up their individuality, but they don’t lose their creativity. The relationship is centered on cooperation rather than opposition. They are working together. (read more)

The Need for Repentance

Bill and Jan Stanton lived in a long, rambling nine-room ranch house on a three-acre beautifully wooded tract of land. The swimming pool in the backyard, the two expensive cars in the garage, the neatly landscaped yard all added up to the obvious—total success.

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HOLD ON TO THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE.

HOLD ON TO THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE.

  One Stone is enough to break a Glass......
One Sentence is enough to break a Heart......
One second is enough to Fall in Love......and One Misunderstanding is Sufficient to Break Friendship.
Friendship is the Rainbow between Hearts.
A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. "There's a big difference, "replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...?
As you walk in this world let GOD hold your hand and ask HIM to guide you and lead you in the parts of righteousness
GOD BLESS YOU  ..... !!!! 

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HOPADE-Activities, and short term plans

HOPADE-Activities, and short term plans

Introduction

Holistic Partners Development-hopade is a blogspot.com entitled to deal with partners, the word partners does mean the people who have got their marriage or already marriage absolutely no, the following are the people hopade will be working with;

• youth partners but not marriage
• youth partners-marriage
• youth couples- young couples, junior couples and senior couples
• young youth in relationships
• Agape /spiritual relationships.

The following are the activities that hopade will be doing;

The word HOLISTIC in this content entails SESPHIM this means that S-social, E-economic, PHI-physical, and M-mental development of partners and their families. In doing so hopade is inspired to see partners changing from their normal shapes and posses an EGGY shape-this means the shape that is, in its totality is molded and therefore no part of an egg is neither injured, wounded, nor bondages.

For instance socially- hopade in its short planned activities will be doing these;

Organize partners’ social events like partners local and domestic safaris to Tanzania National Parks (TANAPA), partners beaches and holidays, partners networks both local and international links, partners friendly matches (partners clubs), partners togetherness parties and weekend days outing.

Economically, provide trainings, seminars, and different workshops to partners so that they can be able to explore higher on economic opportunities around, these includes natural resources, human resources, in kind resources, business opportunities- business plans and entrepreneurial skills. Hopade will be happy to see partners are middle or higher income earners, this goes hand to hand with other economic consultations for partners.

Spiritual; conducting spiritual counseling and guide ness, spiritual relationship among and within partners, Agape love and relationships, spiritual concerts for partners, spiritual safaris-Israel/ Mecca etc.

Political; there is no any nation in the world that have just started without the family, a family is an institution that begins after the agreement of two people, these people are what we call them partners or couples. Therefore hopade is here to provide civic education to families and households, these includes voting rights, human rights. Children rights, disables and other marginalized communities Rights, Roles and Responsibilities (3Rs). Also regional, international and other global political arenas, so for those partners who are very much interested in politics, hopade is welcoming you all on board.

Physical and Mental; hopade is here to organize the following for you partners-;

• Partners jogging days
• Partners’ friendly matches
• Family health education
• Child development

Other activities are-partners conflicts resolutions and management strategies

                               -family houses and home gardening

                               -families/ partners with HIV &AIDS

Therefore the hopade team is welcoming you all to join, provide comments and do not hesitate to ask questions wherever necessary.

Thank you all,

Welcome one,

Welcome all-both partners and non partners….!!!!!!!!!!!

HOPADE-members and some activities

Holistic Development: THIS IS THE LOVE U NEED to be given and to give!!!...

Holistic Development: THIS IS THE LOVE U NEED to be given and to give!!!...: It’s too easy to look at your partner as the problem when your relationship isn’t going smoothly.You can’t change your partner, but you can...

THIS IS THE LOVE U NEED to be given and to give!!!

It’s too easy to look at your partner as the problem when your relationship isn’t going smoothly.You can’t change your partner, but you can always change yourself. One of the biggest changes you can make is choosing to make your love unconditional. The beauty of this is that unconditional love will always have a powerful influence on your partner.

Let’s say that your partner hasn’t been honest with you. You might feel that you can’t trust your partner because of this. Instead of focusing on your partner, you want to consider your own role in this dynamic. This is not to place blame but to empower yourself to effect change.

If your partner has been dishonest, is it possible there are some areas you feel uncomfortable discussing? You are probably very easy to talk to when the topic of conversation doesn’t upset you. How open are you to a calm discussion when you’re feeling betrayed? Are you able to see your partner at these times with eyes of love?

By eyes of love I am referring to responding with unconditional love. Unconditional love is being kind and compassionate regardless of what your partner does. When your love is conditional your partner will have trouble admitting to faults and inadequacies. It’s too painful to receive criticism and judgment from you.

Do you take things personally and get overly emotional? This is another way that you might be pushing your partner away. Your partner doesn’t want to hurt you so if you overreact and become upset your partner might avoid sharing with you. Stay calm and trust that you can work it out.

This isn’t about what’s right or wrong, but only about what works and doesn’t work in your relationship.

Building trust requires understanding that everyone has insecurities. To have a fulfilling relationship you must become a safe person to open up to. Safe means that you are warm, open and non-judgmental in difficult situations. This approach has the power to make your partner’s insecurities smaller.

Being unconditionally loving doesn’t mean that you don’t express your feelings. It’s not about putting up with bad behavior. It’s essential to speak up! Inform your partner what you like, don’t like, want and don’t want, in a way that can be heard. You may need to enforce this as it can take some time for your pattern to change.

How you express yourself is what matters most. Keep the focus on you. For example, you might say, “I’m feeling really hurt by this. I’d like to be someone that you feel comfortable confiding in.” This is an open-hearted stance.

Instead of saying “I can’t believe that you lied to me. How can I ever trust you? We’re supposed to love one another and this is what I get for sticking by you through thick and thin?” This puts your partner on the defensive and builds a wall between you.

By looking within to change your partnership approach, the very inadequacies that reveal themselves in lies, infidelity, distance, addictions and disrespect have a chance to heal.

When you begin to love unconditionally, including the way you love yourself, with acceptance and compassion you create more trust and security. The very things that have been such an issue start to transform.

The interesting thing about unconditional love is that it’s impossible to give unless you take good care of yourself. Along with not criticizing and judging yourself harshly, relaxing, being creative and having fun are a few ways that you can take good care of yourself. These activities all increase your energy and decrease your resentment. What can you do today to increase your ability to love unconditionally?

True love is more than a decision. It’s an energy that has to come from somewhere. The only way you can get enough of it and maintain it, is by filling yourself up with it.

Here for you,Holistic Positioning of your Partner!!!!!

Holistic positioning of your define as the process and situation whereby a partner to rotates his or her partner in all spheres of life, could be the following;

-Positioning your partner as the best friend of yours, this enables you to know, been close, open and even proud of you whatever and wherever the situation may be, your partner will be free to and you can all share a lot from each other and finally enjoy your day and partnership

-Positioning your partner as a lover, a partner is always your lover and this kind of love should be Constant Love. This does not mean that there will be no conflicts among and within you! Absolutely no but a kind of love that is not triggered by anything rather than just the way your partner is, don’t love your partner because today s/he  has appeared smart, or there is money or s/he good in appearance wherever HB or beautiful/Cute wherever you may call. After all someone’s goodness is very personal e.g the way I see your goodness may not be necessarily  the way who else can see it and appreciate it.

-Position your partner as councilor and advisor, s/he can be your councilor where counseling is needed, you might be going difficulties and if it happens that your partner can be part of counseling, I want tell you dears that you will end up suffering a lot includes self-esteem because sometimes you might feel like not being loved. Your partner can also be your best advisor and s/he can give you good advice in all spheres of life, I mean:

      Economical Advisor-in planning, budgeting, in business, job/work……

      Socially Advisor-holistic molding and up bringing of your kids/children and other social fitness of your family in the community at large.

      Physical or Mental fitness, this goes with provisional of quality and good education, type of food stuffs preferred in the family, body fitness or physical exercises…….all these are sourced by a good partner.

      Spiritual growth, this is the first and foremost wanted because everything that you see on earth was once a software and therefore spiritual issues are of paramount important in life. Therefore you partner ought to do all these in order to make sure that thing are moving holistically.

-Emotional controller of your feelings, that a partner can play as your controller when it comes to feelings, meaning that once you are with him/her, you feel like having him/her. If at all you do not feel your partner my friend I want to assure that non of you will experience life times

Do you know how to position your Partner

Have you ever think of positioning your partner holistically? get prepared it is soon coming,you are going to get all the answers that in one way or another it will help you